About Nikki Chanté

Swinger’s Ed™ isn’t just about swinging—it’s about building relationships on purpose.

I’m Nikki Chanté Dillard, therapist-in-training, sex-positive truth-teller, and the woman behind Swinger’s Ed™.

With over 25 years of experience in the lifestyle and education, I’ve navigated the late-night conversations, the emotional aftermath, the healing, the hunger, and the hard lessons that no swingers warned me about. But this isn’t about convincing you to open your relationship.

This is about helping you build one that’s honest, healthy, and fully yours.

I created Swinger’s Ed™ for couples and individuals who want more. More connection, more clarity, more courage to design love on their terms. Whether you’re monogamous, poly, open, closed, curious, or something without a label… I’ve got you.

These are educated, lived experiences, turned into a guidebook.
This isn’t therapy. This is real talk with tools for change.
And if you’re ready to stop just being in your relationship and start building one with purpose to thrive.

I’m your girl.

What I Offer

I'm not here to sell you a fantasy or convince you that you should swing.
I'm here to walk with you through the real work of building the kind of relationship that actually fits your life—messy, beautiful, evolving, and yours.

Whether you're just starting to explore or you’ve been at this for years, I offer honest, shame-free support through:

Speaking & Events:

I don’t do surface-level. I speak from real-life experience, therapeutic insight, and over two decades of navigating relationships that challenge every rule we were taught.
Whether it's a podcast, panel, workshop, or main stage I bring grounded, heart-centered, no-bullshit education that invites people to think, feel, and shift.

1:1 or Couple Consults

Support that’s customized to you. Whether you're figuring out next steps, processing a specific moment, or building a brand new relationship structure, I’ll help you navigate it with clarity and care.

Study Hall

Guides, downloads, and reflection tools for couples and individuals exploring swinging, open relationships, or simply seeking clarity on their desires. No pressure, no judgment, just tools that meet you where you are.

Here's what our customers say

”The Lifestyle is life itself labels are just put on everything in today's world. Thanks for helping people understand. Love the gentle touch.”

- TikTok Comment

”Yes! I am glad ppl are talking more about the value of talking about this clearly and logically.”

- TikTok Comment

Welcome to the Swinger’s Ed™ Circle

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